Octo,....mom?

Who would've thought it could be possible,....8 babies at once! Is she crazy? Lets not even mention the others which make a total of 14 kIDS, of those 8 newborns,.....how is she going to do it. I have one and it's a handful. To add on top of that she's single,...and doesn't work because apparently she's disabled. Okay how would they even allow this? I mean it's one thing for Angelina and Brad to have lots of babies,...THEY HAVE THE MEANS TO SUPPORT THEM....but this poor gal and her mother. I mean I seriously don't know what to say. I think she was being selfish and only thought of herself,..what she wanted when she was a child A BIG FAMILY. I personally think she made a stupid choice; 14 is too much to handle.

I ask myself how she sleeps........

Ideas for Valentine's Day

I know I know,..another V day is here and what will you do? Roses and chocolates again? Try something different. I've managed to write some of my personal favorite things I've done and will do and as always I wanted to share it with you.......

1. Write love quotes, or a poem in a frame or a card;

2. Make a CD of all your romantic songs (songs that have a meaning for both of you);

3. Make a picnic to your favorite spot;

4. Make a collage of the two of you with a verse from "your" song in the middle;

5. Make a list of all the things you love about your partner;

6. Send messages to your lovey dovey all day long (naughty and ncie);

7. Make valentine a “whole year” event,….send nice little notes to your partner every single day for a whole year. Surely you’ll get extra points….;

8. Paint a box or a jar and fill with little love notes, poems, or reasons why u love your partner, so whenever he or she is down they pop open the jar and reach in for a little boost. Or you can fill a container with your love's favorite candy (ie: The charms form Lucky Charms, red M&M's, pink Starbursts,..etc.);

9. Make a little coupon book (which contains coupons your Honey can redeem at any time; you can include anything from foot rub, car wash, facial, manicure, hang with the boys/gals, free day and naughty things—let your imagination run wild-be creative);
10. Breakfast in bed;

11. Make a bath for your loved one with bath salts and scented oils, topped with rose petals and place those small white candles for the scented oils everywhere is the bathroom;
12. Call local radio and dedicate a song for your gal/guy;

13. Organize a treasure hunt with arrows and clues to reach the final prize (YOU) in the bed/bath WAITING….;

14. Place rose petals from the door to the bed and write I LOVE YOU with chocolate kisses and decorate with rose petals, place some candles on the floor to add the perfect romantic lighting (but don't put the candles in the way of your path.......I was so in the mood I got burned,...lol)

Regardless of what you do just have fun doing it.....

AROD Haters.....

I'm a true Alex Rodriguez fan. I mean ever since he was drafted I've been following him in his career and hoping that he'd turn into the great athlete that he is today. I knew he was going to be BIG! Aside from the fact that he is soooooo good-looking, you have to admit he is a great baseball player. I mean hello, isn't his contract proof of that. What I don't get is why people hate him so much? I mean you don't see none of this hatred towards Barry Bonds or Mark Maguire or even Sammy Sosa. Why are people always pointing fingers at him? When he chose to play for the US in the World Classic last year (i think) the Dominican population tore him apart saying he wasn't a true Dominican, and they even said that AROD said he wasn't Dominican. Well HE truly isn't; his parent's are. Now the Dominicans are more accepting of him because this year he will be wearing a Dominican uniform in the World Classic. Regardless of what he wears I will be supporting him. US or not I'm there for you Alex......forget about what all these people say, they're just jealous you're living better than them! You make a great living by playing a great sport,..one I'm sure you love.......

Only friends? Is it possible?

Many people thing that having a male friend is a big no-no being that I'm a married woman. But I think that having male friends can actually help me keep my sanity as long as I maintain certain boundaries. There are times when my head as a woman starts to go crazy and think all kinds of things, (ie: a jealous rage) and thanks to my guy friend I'm able to rethink the situation and realize that I'm not seeing another point-of-view. There are times when us, women, see things differently than what they really are. So my guy friends help me out whenever I have certain doubts or insecurities regarding my relationship and other aspects of my life. My friends respect me and my husband. But more importantly I respect my husband and myself.

There are certain things that I don't find appropriate. For instance, drinking with my male buddy ALONE; being ALONE for a long time; going out at night ALONE. It's not that I don't trust him or me, it's simply that being alone with a person from the opposite sex and putting yourself in certain positions can "tempt" you into doing something more. You may get an "urge" and it can go further than intended.

So just keep it simple........and everything will be fine!

Not during sex,.....:(

Does this happen only to me or to anyone else. Do you have that one family member that is not bad but you kind of like and don't like at the same time? I mean this person calls at all the wrong moments, wants to come over when I really don't feel like having any visitors? And the sad thing is it's not on purpose....it just happens,...AT THE WRONG TIME! Perfect example,..today I was,...um,....you know "taking care of my business with my hubby",...and right smack in the middle the phone rings,.....the phone hasn't rang alllll day but right in the middle of our business that damn thing rings. Meanwhile I'm trying to concentrate and hurry up so that it doesn't go to my answering machine. So right when it's being answered by the machine I pick up and try to sound calm and I say "hello",....well let's just say my aunt didn't recognize me,...lol...she kept saying what's wrong I didn't recognize you and I'm like "oh how odd I have no idea why..."....and my husband yelling in the background "oh she was only getting it on,...jesus".....jajajaja no but seriously. Wrong time to call,......lol